“There are others too…that pretend to be pleasures, such as gambling and pointless parties; as time goes on, it becomes clear even to the victims of their seduction that they are afflictions disguised as pleasures….”
Socrates, in Xenophon’s The Estate Manager, I
It’s a tale of two parties. At the first party people party for the sake of partying. We hear lines like ‘we don’t need a reason to party,’ ‘seize the moment,’ ‘just have a good time.’ Partiers immerse themselves in … Read more of this Wednesday Quote with commentary at Bacon from Acorns.
What makes a party pointless? Certainly a holiday without the holy is rather silly, but what of playing cards with friends, of good conversation at a bar, of the play of children, of board games? What of a silly costume party for fun or silly accent party? What of the study of plants or of literary theory? Are such things pointless? I am probably reading too much into this but it seems like the best, a festival based upon divine worship, might be getting away of the good, a regular party-a fine, fun evening together with friends. Perhaps it would be worthwhile to distinguish between a “festival” with its divine connotations and the more everyday “party” or game, or evening together with friends and family.
Chris,
You ask precisely the right question: what makes a party pointless? And you proceed to note, again rightly, that there are many different good ways of spending quality time with friends and loved ones. The gatherings to which you refer are indeed not pointless. They are various wholesome ways of being-together with those we love. Yes, there is a hierarchy among them, but we can say that there is a ‘point,’ in all them: real personal communion of some sort is put first. That of which Xenophon speaks is something different–and I think something very common in our society. I would suggest that pointless parties are especially characterized by putting a premium on bodily pleasure, as though that is what most of all constitutes a good time. The over-emphasis of bodily pleasure usually goes hand in hand with an effort, albeit often an unconscious one, to escape the present, rather than be-in-it, with those we love. Both higher festivities, and lower instances of wholesome parties, actually share something very important in common: that they are ways that people experience a real communion with one another, rooted in the truth about the human person. You are surely right that the highest of festivals are directly connected with things divine. Wholesome parties too, I think, have a connection to and a presence of the divine, even though more remotely.
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